Three Schools, One Journey!
When people hear my younger son attended three different schools in high school, most assume something went wrong — that he couldn’t handle adversity or was always chasing an easier path. But sometimes, what looks like instability is really growth in disguise — the process of finding the right environment, the right leadership, and the […]
The Trap of Early Rankings: Why Development > Designation
I once drove all the way to New Orleans for a “can’t-miss” tournament. My son’s team was ranked fifth in the country, and that number made it feel like we had to be there. It promised exposure, high-level competition, and a chance to prove ourselves on a national stage. After all that travel, the hotel […]
Why Isn’t My Kid Getting Minutes? The Honest Talk Every Parent Needs to Hear
Your kid’s sitting on the bench. You’re frustrated. You know how much time, money, and emotion has gone into this dream. But before we blame coaches or politics, let’s have an honest conversation because in most cases, the gap isn’t favoritism… it’s preparation. Coaches Don’t Play Potential — They Play Production You might see your […]
Can Dog Mentality Be Learned?
Every parent has heard a coach yell it out in the gym. Every athlete has had it shouted at them during practice. “Be a dog!” But what does that really mean? And maybe more importantly can it be learned, or is it something you’re just born with? What is “Dog Mentality”? Dog mentality isn’t about […]
Different Courts, Same Support: Basketball Parents Powering Dreams Worldwide
Basketball doesn’t look the same in every corner of the world. Courts may be cracked concrete or polished hardwood. Training methods vary, nutrition habits shift, and athletes come in every shape and size. But across all those differences, one constant remains: the parents standing behind the players. If you’ve been in the game long enough, […]
Playing the Long Game: A Message to Parents of Young Athletes
Not all coaches have your child’s development in mind. A good majority are playing to win now, not planning for your child’s long-term growth. That’s not a knock on coaches, winning is their job, but sometimes the “win now” mindset can come at the price of a kid’s confidence or development. As parents, that’s hard […]
Lessons from My Son’s Recruiting Journey
We thought we had it all figured out. My son had committed early to a Division I program. The recruiting coach believed in him, the fit seemed perfect, and we were excited for the future. But as any parent of an athlete knows, the journey can take unexpected turns. The Coaching Change Shortly after my […]
From Overlooked to Coveted: Turning Doubt into Drive
For years I carried a chip on my shoulder about the coaches who overlooked my boys. They were truly underestimated—passed over for teams, minutes, and recognition. Every slight lit a fire in me, and without even trying, I passed that fire to my sons. At first, it was frustration. But that chip also became fuel. […]
Don’t Let Coaches Limit Your Taller Young Athlete
When I was a kid, I was always one of the tallest players on the floor. Coaches automatically stuck me at power forward. I spent most of my high school career under the basket, posting up, rebounding, and setting screens. That worked fine…until I got to college. At 6’3”, suddenly I wasn’t a power forward […]
Why Character and Work Ethic Matter More Than You Think in Recruiting
Most families focus on stats and exposure — but college coaches dig much deeper. When they’re considering your athlete, they don’t just watch film. They call high school coaches, AAU coaches, teachers, guidance counselors, and even community members. They’re looking for the truth about your player’s character, work ethic, and attitude when no one’s watching. […]