Different Courts, Same Support: Basketball Parents Powering Dreams Worldwide
Basketball doesn’t look the same in every corner of the world. Courts may be cracked concrete or polished hardwood. Training methods vary, nutrition habits shift, and athletes come in every shape and size. But across all those differences, one constant remains: the parents standing behind the players. If you’ve been in the game long enough, […]
Playing the Long Game: A Message to Parents of Young Athletes
Not all coaches have your child’s development in mind. A good majority are playing to win now, not planning for your child’s long-term growth. That’s not a knock on coaches, winning is their job, but sometimes the “win now” mindset can come at the price of a kid’s confidence or development. As parents, that’s hard […]
Lessons from My Son’s Recruiting Journey
We thought we had it all figured out. My son had committed early to a Division I program. The recruiting coach believed in him, the fit seemed perfect, and we were excited for the future. But as any parent of an athlete knows, the journey can take unexpected turns. The Coaching Change Shortly after my […]
From Overlooked to Coveted: Turning Doubt into Drive
For years I carried a chip on my shoulder about the coaches who overlooked my boys. They were truly underestimated—passed over for teams, minutes, and recognition. Every slight lit a fire in me, and without even trying, I passed that fire to my sons. At first, it was frustration. But that chip also became fuel. […]
Don’t Let Coaches Limit Your Taller Young Athlete
When I was a kid, I was always one of the tallest players on the floor. Coaches automatically stuck me at power forward. I spent most of my high school career under the basket, posting up, rebounding, and setting screens. That worked fine…until I got to college. At 6’3”, suddenly I wasn’t a power forward […]
Why Character and Work Ethic Matter More Than You Think in Recruiting
Most families focus on stats and exposure — but college coaches dig much deeper. When they’re considering your athlete, they don’t just watch film. They call high school coaches, AAU coaches, teachers, guidance counselors, and even community members. They’re looking for the truth about your player’s character, work ethic, and attitude when no one’s watching. […]
The Mental Grind of the Journey: For Athletes and Parents
When people talk about basketball, they usually focus on the obvious — training, talent, wins, and stats. What rarely gets mentioned is the mental grind that both athletes and parents experience. Every practice, every game, every conversation in the car ride home carries weight. As a parent, you don’t just watch your child’s journey — […]
They Have to Want It More Than You
Parents Can’t Want It More One of the biggest mistakes we make as parents is wanting success more than our kids do. We see the potential, the talent, and the opportunity — and we push. But here’s the truth: no matter how much you want it, it won’t matter unless they want it more. I […]
A Father’s Playbook: Raising Athletes, Raising Men
The Challenge Every Sports Dad Faces If you’re a father raising an athlete, you already know it’s not easy. You’re trying to support your child’s dreams on the court while also shaping the man they’ll become off of it. That balance isn’t simple. There are late nights in the driveway, hard talks after tough games, […]
Why Younger Players Need to Play Free
Some of the best basketball lessons don’t happen in gyms, tournaments, or structured practices. They happen at the park. No whistles. No playbook. No pressure. Just a ball, a rim, and the freedom to play. When my boys were younger, I used to take them to the park to hoop. It wasn’t about drills or […]